One of the "fairest" methods I've heard of was the executor gave all the immediate family members "Monopoly Money" and held an auction. You bid on what you wanted and you'd spend whatever to get that item.Saw greed in action when the first wife's grandparents passed. Long story short the oldest sibling, FIL, was the executor of the estate. He got tired of the bickering and stealing, changed the locks, sold everything and split the proceeds evenly.