I have zero experience in this kind of stuff. What are you supposed to do with the remains? I understand wanting to bury, I understand not paying a funeral home, and I understand not wanting to see your unborn baby's body being eaten by a coyote. I know G. W. Bush had to drive his mother to the hospital during a miscarriage when he was a boy and I believe she donated the fetus to science. What do "normal" people do in this sad situation?