Regarding your first sentence, if it’s a first-time buyer with a semi-auto, might be better with fmj. Don’t have to worry as much about ftf if limp-wristing or not well broken in.You’d be amazed at how many people I sell a gun to that think FMJ’s are better than hollow points. I have to explain penetration and stopping power. I think if more of us, knowledgeable gun owners, took the time to work part time at our local gun stores (if it’s possible), we could help our communities more than we think. I try to explain to women, don’t just buy a gun and throw it in your purse. You shouldn’t have to protect yourself against someone you’re terrified of with something you’re terrified of, it doesn’t make sense. I think we as a whole need to do a better job of how we treat those rst time buyerwho are ignorant about guns. I’m sorry to say but there are alot who are just plain assholes and treat those with no knowledge as though they’re an idiot. Yes, theren in. really are some amazingly stupid people out there, like dumber than a screen door on a submarine but we have to use our good will and patience because we want them to learn correctly from us and not the news. There are so many who truly want to learn but have been given the most absurd and asinine info from a family member or friend and we just have to Calmly tell them that they’re family member is a slack jawed knuckle dragger who knows nothing. Just be patient with those who want to learn and those who just suck, pray for them lol.