Yeah my biggest fear is my 8 year daughter lives an hour north of me in TN. I get her every other weekend (4 days out of the month) what's the likelihood of her being at my home so I can take care of her? Could you lay your head down at night not knowing how your child was or what her supplies are that she'll be sharing with her mom, step dad and 3 other siblings? I couldn't, hell I'm sure I'd die on the way there but I'd die at home not knowing she was safe also. So don't wish your "reset" upon the world.