I had a relative who was always an hour or two late to any family gathering. The last few years before they died, I urged family members to tell them the event was actually 1-2 hours earlier than it was but they always thought I was kidding. Anyways...
We had a great dinner planned with grilled meat, lots of side dishes, cakes and pies and everybody except X showed up about on time and were digging in. I went back for seconds as did most everybody else and then, right when we were almost too full to eat anything else, we attacked the cakes and pies. During the midst of that X showed up with their usual excuses for being late. Not long after we all were loading up to go home and X started loudly complaining because almost nobody ate what they brought. I said, "We were almost done eating when you got here. What did you want us to do?"
We had a great dinner planned with grilled meat, lots of side dishes, cakes and pies and everybody except X showed up about on time and were digging in. I went back for seconds as did most everybody else and then, right when we were almost too full to eat anything else, we attacked the cakes and pies. During the midst of that X showed up with their usual excuses for being late. Not long after we all were loading up to go home and X started loudly complaining because almost nobody ate what they brought. I said, "We were almost done eating when you got here. What did you want us to do?"