I guess it was just confusing how you worded it then. Which adds to the apparent confusion due to deleted posts and and incomplete conversation.Not talking about posts by you.
It would be nice to see the cohesion that many community based forums have, and this one used to. There is a lack of transparency and that doesn't help foster a relationship that is productive.
All the deleted posts, and comments that members should either send OS a PM or start a private help thread. It would be more efficient to answer questions openly so everyone can benefit from the answer rather than just one person. In addition, it would begin to build the trust that has been lost.