My wife has it bad. But she is a CPA and has learned to spend her energy on what she can change after 33 years. You want your CPA to be OCD. Finally I handle the bills, the cleaning, laundry, shopping etc... But not to her specifications but it has become something more. I mention this for those that have responded to this thread.
Your spouse may or not not understand your affliction. It may take years to do so as it might not be as noticeable for a while. At some point they will ask themselves Is this my forever. I want the kitchen to also be clean along with my udder wear being folded but i do so for me. But obsessive is obsessive and I want to let you know that their is a threshold to what a spouse can take with your affliction.
Your spouse may or not not understand your affliction. It may take years to do so as it might not be as noticeable for a while. At some point they will ask themselves Is this my forever. I want the kitchen to also be clean along with my udder wear being folded but i do so for me. But obsessive is obsessive and I want to let you know that their is a threshold to what a spouse can take with your affliction.