I stopped by Walmart to pick up some groceries on my way home from the gym this morning. I parked my car and walked over to the shopping cart corral in the parking lot to grab a cart. Suddenly a man gets out of a white Ford Transit van that's parked next to the carts and well...this happened.
Stranger: You can leave that right there!
Me: What?
Stranger: You can come over here looking angry all you want but if you made better lifestyle choices you could be driving a 15 passenger van like me!
Me: ........huh???
Stranger: You're looking really angry but I'm just saying if you made better lifestyle choices you could have a van like me!
Me: *visibly annoyed* I didn't say anything to you. I don't want any trouble with you.
Stranger: *smiles and puts his hand on my shoulder* Haha I'm just joking you look like you probably have a really nice car...
Me: Why are you touching me?!
Stranger: *takes his hand off my shoulder and steps back*. It was just a joke...
Me: .....have a nice day.
Now to be honest I feel a little guilty. I've been told that I look mean and angry a lot. I guess I just have resting b**** face. The guy was a well-dressed white guy probably in his early 40s. I don't think he meant anything offensive by it. I think he thought I was having a bad day and was just trying to joke around to make me laugh. However it really caught me off guard and I was not very polite to him. I know I have nothing to feel guilty about because I mean who the hell walks up to a stranger in a Walmart parking lot and puts their hand on them? The guy wasn't threatening but it was just a really strange situation and not one that I knew how to react to. Now I'm going to spend the rest of the day weirded out and feeling bad for not showing kindness to a stranger who made a very poorly executed attempt to be nice to another stranger.
Stranger: You can leave that right there!
Me: What?
Stranger: You can come over here looking angry all you want but if you made better lifestyle choices you could be driving a 15 passenger van like me!
Me: ........huh???
Stranger: You're looking really angry but I'm just saying if you made better lifestyle choices you could have a van like me!
Me: *visibly annoyed* I didn't say anything to you. I don't want any trouble with you.
Stranger: *smiles and puts his hand on my shoulder* Haha I'm just joking you look like you probably have a really nice car...
Me: Why are you touching me?!
Stranger: *takes his hand off my shoulder and steps back*. It was just a joke...
Me: .....have a nice day.
Now to be honest I feel a little guilty. I've been told that I look mean and angry a lot. I guess I just have resting b**** face. The guy was a well-dressed white guy probably in his early 40s. I don't think he meant anything offensive by it. I think he thought I was having a bad day and was just trying to joke around to make me laugh. However it really caught me off guard and I was not very polite to him. I know I have nothing to feel guilty about because I mean who the hell walks up to a stranger in a Walmart parking lot and puts their hand on them? The guy wasn't threatening but it was just a really strange situation and not one that I knew how to react to. Now I'm going to spend the rest of the day weirded out and feeling bad for not showing kindness to a stranger who made a very poorly executed attempt to be nice to another stranger.