Christmas wish

[bbarie]

So, indirectly found out my daughter wishes she would have lost he arm instead of the fix that the docs agree triggered he lupus. That night in the emergency room I prayed begged and yelled at God to save her arm...
Just what the **** do I do with that????

 

[keith089]

You did what every parent would have done. You can forgive yourself, but I don’t believe you need too. We only do what we think is best for our children!

 

[fattboyzz]

You are not responsible ,nor are you in control !

I don't like what's goin on around us now ! It sux ! I hate it !

In 1988 I lost my son . He was gone an I never seen him alive again

To hell with yesterday . Today & tomorrow are still here !

 

[Oldtymer]

Damn, that sucks. I wish I had the words but I don't. Prayers for you and your family.

 

[THREEJAYS]

Also at a loss as what to say. I d probably have done the same.

 

[Grady263]

I would’ve done the same thing. God makes no mistakes. Thank God for praying parents!


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[lostchild]

So the doctors theoretically agree that whatever procedure they originally agreed on could be causative?
No reason to beat yourself up, we can only make decisions based on the information we have at the time.
Anyone can look back and see what we should have done.

 

[41mag]

That is none of your fault or your daughter’s fault .
That is the very first thing you have to do and believe in, because it is true.
My sympathies to y’all. Prayers for an easier time going forward.

May i ask : Is this something that the docs are responsible for ? Did they cause this ?
I totally respect your privacy if you dont want to answer.

 

[bbarie]

That is none of your fault or your daughter’s fault .
That is the very first thing you have to do and believe in, because it is true.
My sympathies to y’all. Prayers for an easier time going forward.

May i ask : Is this something that the docs are responsible for ? Did they cause this ?
I totally respect your privacy if you dont want to answer.

They say that Lupus was in her system from birth. It was the trauma of the arm injury that triggered her immune system to turn on itself.

 

[imawoodsman]

Praying for ya brother!!
Praying for your little girl & family!
Stay strong! Y'all can get thru this!