A southern tradition is whats the difference between a yankee and a damn yankee. A yankee drives through on the way to Florida and a damn yankee stops for gas and then decides to buy a house.90% eh? I know another group of folks that love to make up statistics to get their points across.
The op might indeed share 2a values and they is great. Southern values are dissapearing quickly. Holding the door open for someone especially if it means they get a table 1 minute before you. Giving a seat to anyone older than you, yes mayum, yes sir, letting someone into your lane of traffic just because, as well as shooting guns and drinking moonshine.
If you don't get some members reservations, you aint a southern.