Praying for you. My grandfather was the best man I ever knew and he wasn't my blood grandfather. He's been gone 20+ years and I still miss him. Hard to even type this.
I used to think the same way. But sometimes God puts trouble in someone's life to see how others react. You're not taking something from someone but your allowing others to receive a blessing by giving. Pay-Pal is easy to set up. But at the moment people can give by just sending to your e-mail...